Frequently Asked

What's the dress code?

Black-tie optional. Long dresses, suits, or a tux if you're so inclined.

Can I bring a plus-one?

Your invitation will list the names of everyone we've reserved a seat for. If you have questions, please reach out to us directly.

Are children welcome?

We adore your little ones, but we've chosen to keep the wedding day an adults-only celebration so everyone can fully unwind. The welcome party on Friday is family-friendly.

What will the weather be like?

August in Sonoma is warm and dry — typically high 80s during the day, cooling to the low 60s after sunset. A wrap or light jacket for the evening is a good idea.

How do I get from the hotel to the venue?

We ask that all guests use our required shuttles from the room-block hotels on Saturday afternoon. They will be available all night to take you back to your hotels with a final push at 11:00 PM. Full details are on the Travel page.

Can I take photos during the ceremony?

We'd love your full presence during the ceremony, so we're going unplugged — please keep phones and cameras tucked away. After the recessional, snap away.

I have a dietary restriction.

Please note any restrictions or allergies on your RSVP so we can plan accordingly.

Where should I register?

Your presence is the only gift we're hoping for. If you'd still like to mark the occasion, a small registry is linked on our RSVP page.

Who do I contact with questions?

Reach out to our wedding planner, Kayla, at hello@detaileddreamsevents.com — she'll make sure your question finds the right person.